第37章思想的守望者(4)
第37章思想的守望者(4)
2.expandyour_________.setyourgoalsasif_________ispossible.don’tworryaboutwhat“they”think.it’syourgoal_________youcanachieveit.viewtheworldthroughthewonderstruckeyesofa_________.
1.一切皆有可能的思想仍然充斥着孩子的头脑。____________________________________________________________________________________________________________
2.其实无须如此。我们都可以将这些封闭的心墙拆毁,开始新的尝试。
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3.当你制订新年目标时,像孩子一样思考吧。拓展你的思维。设定目标时,假设一切皆有可能。
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1.aschildreneverydayisfilledwithaweandwonder.
befilledwith:充满;装满,盛满
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2.theyhopbackupbecausetheyinstinctivelyknowthateventuallythey’llbeabletowalk.
beableto:能,会,能够;胜任
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门
ondoors
c.d.莫利/c.d.morley
theopeningandclosingofdoorsarethemostsignificantactionsofman’slife.whatamysteryliesindoors!
nomanknowswhatawaitshimwhenheopensadoor.eventhemostfamiliarroom,wheretheclockticksandthehearthglowsredatdusk,mayharborsurprise.theplumbermayactuallyhavecalled(whileyouwereout)andfixedthatleakingfaucet.thecookmayhavehadafitofthevaporsanddemandedherpassports.thewisemanopenshisfrontdoorwithhumilityandaspiritofacceptance.
whichoneofushasnotsatinsomeanteroomandwatchedtheinscrutablepanelsofadoorthatwasfullofmeaning?perhapsyouwerewaitingtoapplyforajob;perhapsyouhadsome“deal”youwereambitioustoputover.youwatchedtheconfidentialstenographerflitinandout,carelesslyturningthatmysticportalwhich,toyou,revolvedonhingesoffate.andthentheyoungwomansaid,“mr.cranberrywillseeyounow.”asyougraspedtheknobthethoughtflashed,“wheniopenthisdooragain,whatwillhavehappened?”
therearemanykindsofdoors.revolvingdoorsforhotels,shops,andpublicbuildingsthataretypicalofthebrisk,bustlingwaysofmodernlife.canyouimaginejohnmiltonorwilliampennskippingthrougharevolvingdoor?thentherearethecuriouslittleslanteddoorsthatstillswingoutsidedenaturedbar-roomsandextendonlyfromshouldertoknee.therearetrapdoors,slidingdoors,doubledoors,stagedoors,prisondoors,glassdoors.butthesymbolandmysteryofadoorresidesinitsqualityofconcealment.aglassdoorisnotadooratall,butawindow.themeaningofadooristohidewhatliesinside;tokeeptheheartinsuspense.
also,therearemanywaysofopeningdoors.thereisacheerypushofanelbowwithwhichthewaitershovesopenthekitchendoorwhenhebearsinyourtrayofsupper.thereisthesuspiciousandtentativewithdrawalofadoorbeforetheunhappybookagentorpeddler.thereisthegenteelandcarefullymodulatedrecessionwithwhichfootmenswingwidetheoakenbarriersofthegreat.thereisthesympatheticandawfulsilenceofthedentist’smaidwhoopensthedoorintotheoperatingroom,and,withoutspeaking,impliesthatthedoctorisreadyforyou.thereisthebriskcataclysmicopeningofadoorwhenthenursescomein,veryearlyinthemorning—“it’saboy!”
doorsareatthesymbolofprivacy,ofretreat,ofthemind’sescapeintoblissfulquietudeorsadsecretle.aroomwithoutdoorsisnotaroom,butahallway.nomatterwhereheis,amancanmakehimselfathomebehindacloseddoor.themindworksbestbehindcloseddoors.menarenothorsestobeherdedtogether.dogsknowthemeaningandanguishofdoors.haveyouevernoticedapuppyyearningatashutportal?itisasymbolofhumanlife.
theopeningofdoorsisamysticact:ithasinsomeflavoroftheunknown,somesenseofmovingintoanewmoment,anewpatternofhumanrigmarole.itincludesthehighestglimpsesofmortalgladness:reunions,reconciliations,theblissofloverslongparted.eveninsadness,theopeningofadoormaybringrelief:itchangesandredistributeshumanforces.buttheclosingofdoorsisfarmoreterrible.itisaconfessionoffinality.everydoorclosedbringssomethingtoanend.andtherearedegreesofsadnessintheclosingofdoors.adoorslammedisaconfessionofweakness.adoorgentlyshutisoftenthemosttragicgestureinlife.everyoneknowstheseizureofanguishthatcomesjustaftertheclosingofadoor,whenthelovedoneisstillnear,withsoundofvoice,andyetalreadyfaraway.
theopeningandclosingofdoorsisapartofthesternfluencyoflife.lifewillnotstaystillandletusalone.wearecontinuallyopeningdoorswithhope,closingthemwithdespair.lifelastsnotmuchlongerthanapipeofo,anddestinyknocksusoutlikeashes.
theclosingofadoorisirrevocable.itsnapstheback-threadoftheheart.itisnoavailtoreopen,togoback.pinerospokenonsensewhenhemadepaulatanqueraysay,“thefutureisonlythepastenteredthroughanothergate.”alas,thereisnoothergate.whenthedoorisshut,itisshutforever.thereisnootherentrancetothatvanishedpulseoftime.“themovingfingerwrites,andhavewrit”
thereisacertainkindofdoorshuttingthatwillcometousall.thekindofdoorshuttingthatisdoneveryquietly,withthesharpclickofthelatchtobreakthestillness.theywillthinkthen,onehopes,ofourunfulfilleddecenciesratherthanofourpluperfectedmisdemeanors.thentheywillgooutandclosethedoor.
人生最有意义的动作就是开门和关门。门内将会是怎样的神秘景象啊!